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BLUE RIBBONS FOR CHILD ABUSE CAMPAIGN AWARENESS
START WEARING YOUR BLUE RIBBONS TODAY
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Hello Child Advocates, and God bless each of you. Please read the following story provided
by one of our valuable members and child advocates, Angie.
What is our campaign all about? Raising AWARENESS about this horrible and heinous crimes committed against
our precious children. They have no defense, they have no voice. WE ARE THE VOICE OF OUR CHILDREN!
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SARAH A Blue Ribbon for Child Abuse
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Sarah
My name is Sarah I am but three, My eyes are swollen I cannot see,
I must be stupid, I must be
bad, What else could have made My daddy so mad?
I wish I were better, I wish I weren't ugly, Then maybe
my Mommy Would still want to hug me.
I can't speak at all, I can't do a wrong Or else I'm locked up All
the day long.
When I awake I'm all alone The house is dark My folks aren't home.
When my Mommy does come I'll
try and be nice, So maybe I'll get just One whipping tonight.
Don't make a sound! I just heard a car My
daddy is back From Charlie's Bar.
I hear him curse My name he calls I press myself Against the wall.
I
try and hide From his evil eyes I'm so afraid now I'm starting to cry.
He finds me weeping He shouts ugly
words, He says its my fault That he suffers at work.
He slaps me and hits me And yells at me more, I finally
get free And I run for the door. He's
already locked it And I start to bawl, He takes me and throws me Against the hard wall.
I fall to the floor With
my bones nearly broken, And my daddy continues With more bad words spoken.
"I'm sorry!", I scream But its
now much too late His face has been twisted Into unimaginable hate.
The hurt and the pain Again and again Oh
please God, have mercy! Oh please let it end!
And he finally stops And heads for the door, While I lay there
motionless Sprawled on the floor.
My name is Sarah And I am but three, Tonight my daddy Murdered me.
There are thousands of kids out there just like
Sarah.
Please pass this poem on as a Blue Ribbon Against Child Abuse because as crazy as it might sound, it might
just indirectly change a life. Hey, you NEVER know.
Please forward if you are *~*~*AGAINST CHILD ABUSE *~*~
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STATISTICS
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Child Abuse Statistics in the USA
- An estimated 906,000 children are victims of abuse & neglect every year. The rate of victimization is 12.3
children per 1,000 children
- Children ages 0-3 are the most likely to experience abuse. They are victimized at a rate of 16.4 per 1,000
- 1,500 children die every year from child abuse and neglect. That is just over 4 fatalities every day.
- 79% of the children killed are younger than 4.
What can be done? |
| Treatment, Prevention and Research are key. Childhelp, one of the largest and oldest national, non-profit organizations
dedicated to treatment and prevention of child abuse, provides a broad continuum of programs that directly serve abused children
and their families. Childhelp also leads public awareness campaigns to educate the public and rally communities behind the
child abuse. |
What can I do? |
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By supporting Childhelp, you are playing a direct role in the treatment and prevention of child abuse. Your donations, purchases from the Childhelp store and the Gift of Hope gift catalogue, and time spent volunteering help a dedicated and passionate staff carry out Childhelp's mission of meeting the physical, emotional, educational, and
spiritual needs of abused and neglected children. | Consequences of Child Abuse and Neglect
in USA
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80% of young adults who had been abused met the diagnostic criteria for at least 1 psychiatric disorder at the age of
21 (including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, & post-traumatic stress disorder)
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Abused children are 25% more likely to experience teen pregnancy
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Children who experience child abuse & neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to
be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violent crime.
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14.4% of all men in prison in the United States were abused as children and 36.7% of all women in prison were abused
as children
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Children who have been sexually abused are 2.5 times more likely develop alcohol abuse
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Children who have been sexually abused are 3.8 times more likely develop drug addictions
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Nearly 2/3’s of the people in treatment for drug abuse reported being abused as children
Cycle of Abuse in USA
1/3 of abused and neglected children will eventually victimize their own children
Additional Statistics on Child Abuse inUSA
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There are nearly 3 million reports of child abuse made annually
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In 2003, there were 906,000 child abuse convictions
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The rate of child abuse is estimated to be 3 times greater than is reported.
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The rate of victimization is 12.3 children per 1,000 children
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Children ages 0-3 are the most likely to experience abuse. They are victimized at a rate of 16.4 per 1,000
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79% of the children killed are younger than 4.
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These statistics are from the Administration for Children & Families of the US Department of Health & Human Services
“Child Maltreatment Report 2003”
Consequences of Child Abuse in the USA
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80% of young adults who had been abused met the diagnostic criteria for at least 1 psychiatric disorder at the age of
21 (including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, & post-traumatic stress disorder)
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Abused children are 25% more likely to experience teen pregnancy
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Abused teens are 3 times less likely to practice safe sex, putting them at greater risk for STDs
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These statistics are from the National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse & Neglect Information. Long-term Consequences
of Child Abuse & Neglect 2005
The Link Between Abuse As a Child & Future Criminal Behavior
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14.4% of all men in prison in the USA were abused as children
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36.7% of all women in prison were abused as children
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Children who experience child abuse & neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to
be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violent crime.
These statistics are compiled from US Department of Justice Reports
The Link Between Child Abuse & Substance Abuse
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Children who have been sexually abused are 2.5 times more likely develop alcohol abuse
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Children who have been sexually abused are 3.8 times more likely develop drug addictions
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Nearly 2/3’s of the people in treatment for drug abuse reported being abused as children
These statistics are compiled from the National Institute on Drug Abuse 2000 Report & Child Abuse & Neglect
Study by Arthur Becker-Weidman PhD
Sources:
Prevent Child Abuse America: Current Trends in Child Abuse Reporting & Fatalities: The 2000 Fifty State Survey
National Center on Child Abuse Prevention Research: Prevent Child Abuse America; Current Trends in Child Abuse Reporting
and Fatalities: The Results of the 1997 Annual Fifty State Survey
Lung, C. & Daro D. (1996) Current Trends in Child Abuse Reporting and Fatalities: The Results of the 1995 Annual Fifty
State Survey. Chicago: National Committee to Prevent Child Abuse. http://www.childabuse.com/fs9.htm
US Department of Health & Human Services Administration for Children & Families. Child Maltreatment 2003: Summary
of Key Findings
National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse & Neglect Information. Long-term Consequences of Child Abuse & Neglect 2005
US Department of Justice
Child Abuse & Neglect Study by Arthur Becker-Weidman PhD
National Institute on Drug Abuse 2000 Report
LET'S GET INVOLVED, KEEP THE THOUGHTS, IDEAS, SUGGESTIONS AND QUESTIONS COMING.
childsvoice@bellsouth.net
My web site: A Child's Voice Connection. You can find information and resources on this subject, and
become a member of this campaign. You can join my email list from the web site that will keep you informed of the
progress of this campaign.
https://woodworksga.tripod.com/achildsvoiceconnection.org/index.html
My message board on DRPhil.com: A Child's Voice Connection
http://www.drphil.com/messageboard/topic/999/
Childhood Sexual Abuse Support message board on drphil.com:
http://www.drphil.com/messageboard/topic/255/
TAKE A STAND, AND JOIN THE FIGHT. IT'S A REAL PROBLEM. WE HAVE A DUTY AS A SOCIETY TO
PROTECT OUR CHILDREN. THIS HAS TO STOP. WE NEED THAT ARMY OF PEOPLE WHO WILL STAND STRONG AND DEMAND OUR CHILDREN
ARE PROTECTED!
AGAIN, I WISH TO THANK DR PHIL AND CO FOR ALL THEY ARE DOING FOR THIS CAUSE. HE HAS A WEALTH OF INFORMATION
AVAILABLE.
God bless, Darrell. Child Advocate.
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SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
Have you ever seen a child who fell down and got hurt, and the child seemed so terrified, bleeding and hysterical.
This can be typical for a child who has been hurt. Take a moment and etch this image in your mind..................
Now, what's the first thing we do when we see a child in this situation? We run to their rescue, hold
them, calm them, comfort them and access their injuries. And if the injuries are severe enough, of course we seek immediate
medical attention.
Now imagine this child all alone, and you can see this child from a distance, but you are unable to assist
that child, or call for help to rescue the child. Not knowing the seriousness of the child's injury, and not being able
to help this child...think about it, how would you feel?
I'm sure you people have watched some of the crime investigative shows on television, and see the horrific
traumas so many people experience from being assaulted and murdered. Now think on this for a moment....
Now imagine a helpless, precious and innocent child being all alone with a perpetrator, let's say this child
was abducted by a pedophile and murderer. Try to imagine the horror in this child's mind, and the desperation and the
confusion of what's going on, and why. Many of you are survivors of sexual abuse or childhood abuse, so I hope
this isn't too graphic. I think it's necessary to get the point across.
Now imagine this child, a 5 year old girl, in the capture of a pedophile, terrified, horrified, scared to
death. Not knowing or understanding why or what is going on she cries. The perpetrator wants the child to be quiet,
and strikes her several times to cause her to remain quiet. The perpetrator is angered, and he is selfish, has no regard
for human life, he has captured a body for his pleasure and considers her disposable. He has learned to turn off his
emotions and regard for human suffering. He just wants one thing, and nothing else matters to this mad man.
The perpetrator sexually assaults this child for a period of time. Imagine the horror going on in
her mind. What is she thinking? She wishes that mommy or daddy was there to protect her, why? She doesn't
understand. At some point, she goes into a mental shut down. She feels the pain, and she wants it to stop.
She can't contain herself, she cries, and again the perpetrator beats her, this time harder. The child goes quiet again.
Such a young life to suffer such a trauma. She's in serious pain, and has been molested and physically
beaten. When it's over she's still terrified. She's thinking "how can this terrible man do this?" Why me?
Why doesn't someone help me?
The perpetrator has pre-determined that he will have to dispose of his victim. So he strangles her,
and beats her. It takes a few minutes for one to die from strangulation. This poor helpless, innocent child, a
picture of life, a child of God is feeling pain and horror at the hands of a man 20 times her strength. The child finally
succumbs to the strangulation, she is dead. I ASK MYSELF, WHY? WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? HOW CAN WE ALLOW THIS
TO CONTINUE? WHAT CAN WE DO TO STOP THIS MADNESS.
The parents are terrified at the thoughts of what might happen to their precious child, but with hopes that
she will be ok. Then, the knock on the door. The officer at the door has the story written all over his face.
He has to confirm their worse fears.
A murdered innocent child, a devastated family, a troubled community, and a murderer and pedophile on the
loose. The most horrible situation imaginable.
This happens so often. I will post more statistics after this next story. THIS IS
REAL, AND THIS HAPPENS TO OUR CHILDREN EVERY DAY.
1,500 children die every year from child abuse and neglect. That is just over 4 fatalities every day.
79% of the children killed are younger than 4.
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